What should you do first! Call your local police or Child Protective Services.
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When you have concerns for a child's well-being, the indicators listed below may help guide you in your thought process. Many of these "symptoms" or "signs" could be caused by things other than abuse or neglect. Generally, these indicators do indicate that a child's safety may be at risk and, at the very least, the situation should be assessed by a professional able to determine the causes of these symptoms and offer the help and assistance necessary to reduce the risk to a child.
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It is not necessary that you decide if a child is abused or neglected. Child abuse and neglect are not always easy to identify. For example, bruises may or may not have been caused by abuse. A child coming to school with head lice or dirty clothes may or may not be due to neglect.
Yet, hundreds of people across the country are charged with the duty to be aware of the children they see and work with daily, and to report suspicions of child abuse, neglect, or dependency.
Your interaction with so many children, your professional training regarding child development, and your innate sense of a child's well-being, gives you the ability and responsibility to protect children from abuse and neglect.
Recognizing a child in need of protection goes beyond the
legal definitions of abuse, neglect and dependency.
It is an accumulation of everything you know and sense about a child or a situation. Recognition does not always come about in a concrete way. It can be an inner voice that tells you that something is just not right. That's when you should call Children's Services.
The full legal definitions of abuse, neglect and dependency are rather lengthy. You can look up the entire text in the Ohio Revised Code sections referenced below. However, they can be summarized as follows:
Abused child (taken from O.R.C. 2151.031): Any child who is the victim of sexual activity, is endangered, or exhibits evidence of any injury or death inflicted other than by accidental means, or at variance with the history given of it, or because of acts or omissions of his parents, guardians, or custodian, suffers physical or mental injury that harms or threatens a child's health of welfare.
Neglected child (taken from O.R.C. 2151.03): Any child who is abandoned by his parents, guardian or custodian, lacks adequate parental care because of the faults of the parents, or whose parents neglect or refuse to provide him with proper or necessary sustenance, education, medical or surgical care, or any other care made necessary by his mental condition.
Dependent child (taken from O.R.C. 2151.04): Any child who is homeless, destitute or without adequate parental care through no fault of his parents, guardian or custodian; who lacks proper care or support by reason of the mental or physical condition of his environment, in such as to warrant the State, in the interest of the child, to assume his guardianship; or any child who is residing in a household in which a parent, guardian or custodian or other member of the household has committed an act that was the basis for an accusation that a sibling of the child, or another child who resides in the household is an abused, neglected or dependent child and, because of circumstances surrounding the abuse or neglect of the sibling and other conditions of the household, the child is in danger of being abused or neglected by that parent, guardian, custodian or other member of that household.
It is important that you understand the intention of the laws by defining child protection. The actions taken by County Children Services after your referral is received are based on what the law allows us to help the child and the family correct its problem.
You do not have to investigate to make sure your referral is valid, or that it complies with legal definitions. When you suspect a child's welfare is jeopardized, and make a referral to Children Services, you help us identify the potential need for our services.
Your feeling that something just isn't right with a child is sufficient to warrant your call to Child Protective Services. The agency, then, uses the investigative and legal process to manage your referral and possibly open a case.
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Neglect Physical Abuse Sexual Abuse Emotional Abuse
Neglect is when a parent/caregiver does not provide for the basic emotional and physical needs of the child on an ongoing basis. Examples of neglect include not providing the proper:
Children who are neglected physically and emotionally may not develop normally. Some children may suffer permanent damage.
Physical abuse includes anything a parent/caregiver does that results in physical harm to a child. Physical abuse may happen if a child is punished harshly, even though the parent/caregiver may not have meant to hurt the child.
Examples of physical abuse include:
Physical abuse may result in a minor injury (such as a bruise) to a more serious injury which could cause lasting damage or death (for example from shaking a child).
Sexual abuse occurs when a person uses power over a child, and involves the child in any sexual act. This abuser is more powerful because of age, intelligence, physical strength, control over the child, and the childs need to be taken care of by others. The offender gets the child to participate by using threats, bribes, lying and taking advantage of the childs trust.
Sexual abuse includes involving the child in acts such as:
fondling (touching the child in a sexual
getting the child to touch the adult
inserting fingers, penis, or objects in
the vagina or anus
allowing a child to watch pornography
involving a child in pornography or
Most sexual offenders are people the children know.
A parent/caregiver who continually uses any of the following when interacting or disciplining a child is emotionally abusing the child.
rejecting (e.g., saying "I wish you were
criticizing (e.g., saying "Why cant you
do anything right?")
insulting (e.g., saying "I cant believe
you would be so stupid")
humiliating (e.g., embarrassing a child
in front of other people)
isolating (e.g., not allowing a child to
play with friends)
terrorizing (e.g., scaring a child by
saying "The police will come and take
corrupting (e.g., always swearing in
front of the child, or getting the child to
participate in things against the law)
not responding emotionally
punishing a child for exploring the
Children who witness violence in their home may suffer emotional damage watching a loved one being physically or verbally attacked.
Family Violence against men, women, and children are the future of our community. Here at preventfamilyviolence.com, we believe in the value of children. They have a right to a safe environment in which to grow and flourish.
Men, women, and children must be protected; and yet, sometimes they cannot protect themselves. Protecting each of us from abuse involves everyone. Helping abused and neglected men, women, and children is a duty we all share.
Information is a key component in family violence and child abuse prevention, here at www.preventfamilyviolence.com we offer current articles and reports on child abuse trends and what you can do to help combat abuse. Learning and understanding are also key components in fight against child abuse, here we offer a wide variety of articles, newsletters and learning material. Read, learn, and join in the fight against child abuse.
Acts of violence occur every 18 seconds in this country. A woman is abused every 9 seconds.
Child abuse & Neglect US Dept of Health & Human Services
ChildHelp at http://www.childhelp.org/pages/statistics/
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